If I spent time on what my first post would be, thought-wise, I would not do anything. Like so many aspects of my life, it would simply get put on hold indefinitely. I'm a wife and a mother, and what else may be or may have been, is all on hold. I clean, I bathe children, I wash dishes, and I wait and work around other adults as they pass through the space I live in. IT is enough. and yet not nearly.